Thursday, 3 January 2013

why i'll always dye my hair - and why you should too
















why should brightly coloured hair be more wildly accepted?
this is my coloured hair history, as featured above.

Just because sometimes it’s so nice to appreciate the girls around the world that represent us coloured hair tribe, and because I’m a huge advocate in personal style and self-expression I wanted to share some thoughts and tips on colouring your hair bright colours. It’s become almost second nature to me now to have coloured hair, and while in my day job in Shoreditch it’s not really even second glanced at, I still am the target of mild prejudice out and about in the UK and even more so around the world.

People think it’s quite alright to just stare and point and also sometimes make funny remarks – although most of the time I do get nice remarks, they still come in fired at me – and I’ve always wanted my site to be a place where people feel at ease reading it and also inspired and perhaps a place where they can get that last min push to do something they’ve always wanted to. Luckily, we live in a world that is becoming more tolerant of unique looks and styles but it still sometimes ends in heartbreak and tragedy. In 2007, Sophie Lancaster was killed to death forbeing a goth, and this is something that has never been able to leave my thoughts. Growing up as a young girl in Cambridge I was pretty much the only punk/goth in the school. Luckily for me, my school was fantastic in accepting all different styles and personal tastes and I never fell victim to bullying or prejudice. But I know it could have been a completely different story.

I always aim to push forward that makeup and hair is temporary and also that there is never anything wrong at all in being unique, and never should there be. Celebrities like Nicki Minaj, Jessie J and Lady Gaga fly the flag all over the world for pop coloured hair, and it’s so easy to do yourself at home. Of course you can and if its your first time you should pop to a salon to ensure it’s bleached properly, but once that’s over you can really get experimenting. Think of your hair as a blank canvas and your tools as your paint kit. If you want to try rainbow hair, try rainbow hair. Or why not try a bright block colour all over? People always tell me that my turquoise suits me, and well I wouldn’t really go that far, but I think because I’ve sailed the coloured hair ship for over 13 years of my life now it’s something that people have become used to when looking at me. And really that is half the battle, getting acceptance by people getting “used” to your look. Only a few years ago it was rare to have bright red hair, and now it’s so wildly accepted that I see red haired vixens all over the street all the time. I’m a bit of a rarity being turquoise, but colours like red and orange and pink are far more accepted than they’ve ever been. I think the more we embrace different styles – as it’s not even a culture thing any more, it’s all about style – the richer our countries will become. 

It’s never been easier to get dying at home, and it’s even come to the high street now. I saw a great product a few weeks ago from Schwarzkopf and it’s got me thinking how great it is that it exists. When I was a kid (we’re talking about 13-17 here) I always dyed my hair pillarbox red using Schwarzkopf and I could only imagine how excited I’d be if I was still that age now and I saw these new Ultra Brights range. I think the key message I always want to promote and trust me if I could stand up in government and sing about it I would – is that colour washes out. It washes. You suit bright colours more than you think you do, and it’s all just an aid to helping express your personality. I know if you’re young your school might have rules on this, but and without wanting to get any of you in trouble (take my advice with a pinch of salt if you are a young bub) I always got around it, and I did it by proving I can work hard and the colour of my hair does nothing to my personality or my school work. I had some jobs when I was 15 where they made me cover my bright orange hair with a heinous hair net, but it never once put me off standing up for what I believed in, and I’d take it off the minute their backs were turned. The customers never didn’t want to be served by me, and infact I did a better job than some of the other employees, and I was memorable.

I will for as long as I live spread the word about the S.O.P.H.I.E charity, and forever be me however I want to be me. This involves coloured hair then so be it. If you've always been thinking about dying your hair but never felt like you quite had the push, then hopefully my extensive hair colour history as pictured above should help you get inspired that coloured hair is the new blonde and as individuals we can all shape the world uniquely.

What do you think about coloured hair? Do you think there’s still a mild prejudice against it? Do you think that the Sophie Lancaster charity helps to raise awareness of it? Will you be picking up a box of Ultra Brights to give it a go at home? It’s only £4 and you can find it here. What do you think of my many hairstyles over the years?
Love, Zozo

x

Disclaimer: Last year I visited the Schwarzkopf Academy in conjunction with the Ultra Brights launch. This post is a follow up from that. Some of the weird watermarks on my pictures above (xARREST ME, IM BANKSYx) are from my old MySpace page! (I know, I know. don't rip me too hard in the comments.)

28 comments:

  1. Great post Zoe! It really struck a chord with me, I used to be a member of the coloured hair tribe too but having a 'real job' made me lose who I am! I might have to add a bit of colour back in.

    I used to feel so amazing when I had green/pink/purple/blue hair and like the centre of attention. I never got any horrible comments, not to my face anyway but I'm the kind of person that doesn't really listen to negativity.

    I posted my hair history here: http://www.paperbacksandpostcards.com/2012/01/my-hairstory.html if you fancy a look :)

    Amy xx

    P.S. Loving the MySpace pics! xx

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  2. lovely post :)

    i am also looking so chalking...

    www.makeupshakeups.com

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  3. What's great is that over the past few years I personally haven't had one bad thing said about my brightly coloured hair (when i've had it, which hasnt been so much latley), whereas back in the day I used to always have people go "haha your hair is pink" (no shit sherlock!)
    Sucks that I have to go back natural for my job this summer in DisneyWorld Florida :( Hello massive roots as I grow out my natural ginge (but disney ofc makes up for that)! When I return though....bahaha! I love that you've wrote this post, it's making me traul back through old myspace pictures.

    Oh myspace days :')

    xox

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  4. I love coloured hair and yours looks particularly awesome. I'm currently sporting a pastel pink streak! xxx

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  5. I had flamingo pink hair and orange and purple bits in it too for 5 years until I trained as a lecturer. I decided when I qualified to dye it a natural colour because even though I'm a lecturer in Art I knew people can still choose to not think you're suitable just because of bright pink hair. What really struck me after I'd done it was how quiet my walks into town had become or queuing at the corner shop. No-one felt the need to start talking to me even though I didn't know them, chavs (i don't like the term but you need to know the kind of ppl I mean) didnt hurl abuse at me anymore and I realised it was because my pink hair didn't single me out anymore. It's sad to think that people behave that way just because someone looks different. My boss where I teach now has bright orange hair so maybe the pink will start creeping back in! I've found it becomes who you are, I used to work in a record shop and became known as "the pink haired girl who works in Virgin" small town I guess!

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  6. I have no problem with people dying their hair all colours of the rainbow. As long as they are kind to their hair afterwards/during. :)
    I've been a range from bright white blonde, to black. With a few random streaks thrown in of colours here and there. I prefer to experiment with putting hair up in random styles and wearing accessories that are different, but all are a great way to express yourself.
    It'd be a boring world if we didn't change things up every now and again.
    xx

    p.s the myspace pics, we all had them. I was glitterbondgirl. Why? No idea.

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  7. Such a great post! I think people should just be able to express themselves in whatever way they want without people having to comment on it or pick fault. I know I've never cared, my hair is everchanging and I love it. I think I was 'Sally Cinnamon' on Myspace so I really wouldn't worry about it haha :) xx

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  8. I love rainbow hair! I think it sets you apart from the crowd!

    www.fashionandbeautyrelated.blogspot.co.uk

    x

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  9. I think it's bizarre you've ever had strangers say something negative about your hair - especially in timid ole England, where I have to say most people ignore anything a bit 'wild' instead of saying anything about it. Maybe I've always been lucky though! Even when I had blue, silver and purple dreads all I got was little girls staring at me in wonderment haha :)

    Hair dye trends (pastels, dip dyes, ombres, Rhianna red etc) have been knocking about the last few years and I think it's awesome! I've always thought your hair should be an extension of your style instead of something just to fit in a 'society tells me I must have long, pretty, natural coloured hair' box.

    Forever a dye hard <3

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  10. I personally love coloured hair! I don't think i could ever pull it off though, my hair is basically black too which is super hard to lift!
    I did bleach the ends of my hair to some kinda orangey (supposed to be blonde) ombre last year but think i'm gonna go au naturel! I'd love pastel hair though, so cute :)
    I remember when Sophie died, it was so awful, and I do hope that things may have started to change for the better! Fingers crossed xo

    iamlaurenpotts.blogspot.co.uk

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  11. Hi i love the blue, i'm new to blogging and stuff it would be really great if anyone could come check it out http://esmeonthemooon.blogspot.co.uk/ ? If you do i would really appreciate it :)x

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  12. I love coloured hair so much, and in school I used to dye my hair pink, blue, and even green all the time. But since I got a job I had to stop, they won't allow me to have pink hair. Almost 8 years later I'm leaving that job now, but getting into a more professional world and fear that I won't be able to find a decent job or be taken seriously with coloured hair. It sucks. :(

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  13. I've been dying my hair for as long as I can remember, although the funky colours only came out during the summer as our school was really strict and we got sent to the principle if we had anything too outrageous. I finally got pink and purple streaks put in a few years ago and LOVED IT... but I found that I had to go back to a 'natural' colour if I wanted to be taken seriously for an office type job. :( It's just not fair that you're judged by your hair colour.. when I lived in Prague nobody cared what I looked like, but here in London I find that I've got to blend in a bit or I won't be taken seriously! :( I've got a couple of blue and turquoise shades sitting at home waiting to come out, but I'm worried that if I dye my hair that colour the bosses will object!

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  14. When I was younger, I had every hair colour under the sun, I don't think there's a colour I haven't been! It's good you didn't get any bullying for your hair, I didn't either, but I knew people who did. Luckily, I live in a big city so I was never alone in having a different hair colour, I could see that it's hard when you're the only one though! x

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  15. It's funny, I love coloured hair on others, but I've never permanently dyed my hair, because... wait for it... my dad told me he'd disown me if I did! (I should point out, I'm the only reddy blonde in a family of brunettes so I think it was because he didn't want me to tamper with what he thought was lovely).

    I tried the Fiery Copper Ultra Bright for Halloween recently (dressed up as Poison Ivy) and it worked out alright. I would love to try putting colour in my hair, but I've heard having lighter hair means the colour doesn't hold as well? Also once you start I imagine it's hard to stop and I don't know if I could afford it, any advice for a first-timer? :P

    Christina xo

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  16. Another lovely post. I think coloured hair looks incredible. I have never really taken the plunge though. I did dip dye my hair over summer so that my usually very dark brown hair had bright orange tips but for me the things that puts me off dying my hair at all is the up keep. The time and money involved in keeping dark hair anything other than that isn't something I am up for at the moment. Plus as a primary school teacher I can't really have anything too mad. Saying that I have always been obsessed with the idea of bright red 'Ariel from the little mermaid' hair so I think I might bite the bullet and go for it over the summer holidays.

    http://mag-num-pie.blogspot.co.uk/

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  17. Even now at nearly 27 I get chavs call me a grunger, ignorantly, because I have big tunnels or a pierced lip or just because I'm not wearing a tracksuit like them. There's nothing about how I have looked over the past 7 years that I would class as "grunger" and it always suprises me that complete strangers are so ready to just shout labels at other people they don't know. It doesn't bother me in the slightest, in fact I kind of expect it around these areas I've grown up in and gives me a bit of a laugh. Though I can imagine how intimidating or embarrassing it could be for others.

    I grew up with my hair being every colour under the sun between about 16-23 and I used to get some weeeeird looks. From my personal experience if the looks or name calling affected me I probably wouldn't have been dying my hair.

    Great post Zoe, these new posts have been great reads!

    http://www.rafflesbizarre.blogspot.com

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  18. love this post!

    http://whatalicedidtoday.blogspot.co.uk/

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  19. I put a bright colour in my hair for the first time ever (and I'm 21!!) the other day and I LOVE it! Bright pink ends on blonde. Am currently looking for another job though so hopefully it is excepted North London! xx

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  20. Be thankful you're in a job that allows you to express yourself. Unfortunately for the sake of being able to pay the bills, I have to have shitty brown hair which makes me feel like utter shite about myself. When in reality I would love blue/violet.

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  21. I'd love to dye mine blonde (not crazy i know but i am 23 and have nearly always had it its natural dark brown/black colour) but feel like it would be such a change i am unsure about doing it. you have pushed me further towards taking the plunge - thank you :D x

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  22. I love this post! Your hair looks awesome in all the photos :)I love your hair blonde, it's so cool :) my hair has been so many colours, i love dying it or just adding streaks of colours! I really want to put some more orange in my hair right now :) I think there is a bit of prejudice from some people.. but the majority of comments i've had from people are nice :) x

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  23. Wow - love them all : ) I went through lots of colours at one point and had so much fun!

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  24. This post has really made me think. I'm always toying with the idea of dying my hair but I never do because I'm worried what people will think of it and I'll get judged. You look like you've had a lot of fun with your hair over the years and I wish I could say the same. This year maybe I hope I can finally pluck up the courage to do something exciting with my own hair.

    Sophie
    www.anarrangementofnotes.wordpress.com

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  25. It all depends on where you go when people get freaked out about your hair colour, in Cornwall they looked at me like I was some kind of mental case for having lilac hair, whereas in Stoke I barely got a glance. It depends on how diverse the area is.

    As for Sophie, it is an issue close to my heart. The styles that are so popularized today such as skulls and spikes pisses me off a little, because I was made fun of for wearing those kind of things. I've had some nasty threats in the past for the way I looked, but because the mainstream has said it's cool to dress like a grunge rocker/goth/metalhead, now anyone can wear it without having to suffer the consequences of looking different, because now no one does. Fucks me off in all honesty. [/rant]

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  26. hi, how do you go from dark colours to bright colours?

    aimee

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  27. This is such a great post :) I loved having my hair dip dyed bright turquoise for the summer holidays but my school is really strict and will only let us have it 'natural colours', I wish I could have a bright colour again :/ x
    http://esmeonthemooon.blogspot.co.uk/

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  28. HEY! I badly want the red hair. 8th photo. aww, how'd you do that??? I've been dying to dye my hair just like that color. Too bad, because I don't know of a salon that could give me that color and still have the same vibrance the next days, let alone weeks.

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